on people’s emotions, stirring desire and confusion, inducing psychological surrender. In
Note: groan. why? fortunately juggler's approach to game is different. and women do seem to appreciate directness. such is my experience anyway.
back, the emotional withdrawal. That is the key to enslaving desire.
Note: The coquette is not the right type for a man. He must be the initiator. He cannot be stepping back all the time. He can only make his initiations infrequent enough that they can be desired. To give the little pushes that make a woman pull.
It is far more likely, though, that he will end up becoming her slave, giving her incessant attention to gain her love, and failing. For the narcissistic woman is not emotionally needy; she is self-sufficient. And this is surprisingly seductive. Self-esteem is critical in seduction. (Your attitude toward yourself is read by the other person in subtle and unconscious ways.)
Note: so no cajoling if ach rebuffs you. only ..thats too bad... and ...it would hve been good to.. or ..id have liked to.. or ..we could..
to their victims that they may not be that interested. This
Note: like ach talking to her friemd instead of me.