playing on people’s emotions, stirring desire and confusion, inducing psychological
Note: groan. why? fortunately juggler's approach to game is different. and women do seem to appreciate directness. such is my experience anyway.
but in the subsequent step back, the emotional withdrawal. That is the key to enslaving
Note: The coquette is not the right type for a man. He must be the initiator. He cannot be stepping back all the time. He can only make his initiations infrequent enough that they can be desired. To give the little pushes that make a woman pull.
to burst her bubble. It is far more likely, though, that he will end up becoming her slave, giving her incessant attention to gain her love, and failing. For the narcissistic woman is not emotionally needy; she is self-sufficient. And this is surprisingly seductive. Self-esteem is critical in seduction. (Your attitude toward yourself is read by the other person in subtle
Note: so no cajoling if ach rebuffs you. only ..thats too bad... and would hve been good to.. or have liked to.. or ..we could..
of desire, they signal to their victims that they may not be
Note: like ach talking to her friemd instead of me.