And technically, it probably shouldn’t have been called a Bible study. This was more of a “try to read the Bible with a bunch of people who don’t know squat about the Bible” meeting.
Normal says to hate your enemies. Jesus says to love them. Normal seeks revenge on those who hurt you. Jesus shows you how to be kind to those who harm you. If someone hits you, then normal swings back. Jesus teaches you to turn the other cheek.