transformation is often more about unlearning than learning, which is why the religious traditions call it “conversion” or “repentance.”
True religion is always a deep intuition that we are already participating in something very good, in spite of our best efforts to deny it or avoid it.
We are here to give back fully and freely what was first given to us—but now writ personally—by us!
The first task is to build a strong “container” or identity; the second is to find the contents that the container was meant to hold.