At times, your marriage seems to be an unsolvable puzzle, a maze in which you feel lost.
Older cultures taught their members to find meaning in duty, by embracing their assigned social roles and carrying them out faithfully.
Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung
Note: The only way to love, is to love big. That's what makes the pain and the joy worth it all.
In Jesus we see all the authoritarianism of authority laid to rest, and all the humility of submission glorified.
Note: Humbled & exalted - to the cross we cling.